We've polled men all month and guess what we've found? By and large, men want to be faithful, they just don't know how! Ladies, whether you buy that or not, here are a few other interesting love stats that are sure to catch your attention. -- 73% of men keep secrets from their significant other. -- 21% visit sexually-oriented websites at least once a day while in a relationship. -- 56% fantasize about other women while in a relationship.

8% have virtual sex online with a person they don't know at least once a week while in a relationship.-- 27% of men wish their partners were more adventurous in bed. -- 43% don't feel free to express their sexual desires with their mates for fear they will be judged.-- 15% think about an ex at least twice a month while in a relationship. Why are some guys allergic to monogamy? Is it boredom, biology or both? Actually, it's none of the above. Here are the top 5 reasons men really stray...

They made a mistake. Often, guys don't really know what they want out of a relationship with a woman, but they don't realize it until they're with the wrong one. This is more common than you think. Many men don't marry for love, but for appearances. They often go with the woman who looks good on paper, but doesn't necessarily lights their fire, so to speak. They find that spark when they're married or engaged to the one who looks good on paper and thus, infidelity ensues.

They lack confidence. Men are just as insecure as woman, believe it or not. Women think men are macho and have huge egos, but inside we're really just little boys crying out for attention. When we get that attention from another woman, even though we're in a committed relationship, we stray because it gives our fragile egos a boost.